Many people hear the word, "betrayal", and think of infidelity, yet the experience is actually much broader. Yes, the hurt feelings can result from a love betrayal, but the same symptoms can also be triggered by an unfaithful coworker or boss; betrayal in a friendship; disloyalty from a workplace, community, even country; the earth appearing to turn on us; or what is sometimes described as the ultimate betrayal - a loss of trust or faith in our relationship with “something bigger, something spiritual”. Regardless of the source, the emotional distress is often severe.
A friend knowingly breaks a confidence that causes hurt and loss of reputation; this is betrayal. A spouse professes love and loyalty while involved in an emotional affair outside the marriage; this is betrayal. A boss or organization pretends to be honest and fair while manipulating employees to exploit their talents; this is betrayal.
What do these examples of broken trust have in common?
· Personal and/or cultural expectations are present.
· Based on these expectations, whole-hearted loyalty is given to another.
· "The Truth" is shattered; often due to someone making choices despite potential, major damage to the relationship.
· Shock and intense hurt feelings inevitably result.I have chosen the play King Lear by William Shakespeare, with a couple of novels: Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison, and Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte. These works take you on a wild adventure of emotions, but the one that sticks the most is betrayal.
Within King Lear, betrayal plays a critical role in the play and show the workings of wickedness in both the familial and political realms. Through out the acts brothers betray brothers and children betray their fathers. Goneril and Regan’s betrayal of Lear raises them to power in Britain, where Edmund, who has betrayed both Edgar and Gloucester, joins them. The play suggests that betrayers turn on one another, showing how Goneril and Regan fall out when they both become attracted to Edmund, and how their jealousies of one another in the end lead to mutual destruction. This play is lead by Lear’s blind, foolish betrayal of Cordelia’s love for him, which reinforces that at the heart of every betrayal lies a skewed set of values.
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